Alright, I realize it won’t officially be a week until tomorrow. But this will be my last post until after the New Year holiday. With all that is happening now and all that will be going on in the next several weeks, I have decided to take a little break and give you one from me. You might see me posting on Facebook now and again. Since this will be my final opportunity to do so through this BLOG, I wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas and a Happy and safe New Year, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or whatever it is you observe. We were brought together as a result of my adversity and your kind and caring heart. You have given me so much more than material things. You have given me a drive, determination, and a reason for hope. I Thank You all so very much. With each passing day, I realize this will be a much tougher and longer journey than I originally anticipated. In the beginning, I had an unrealistic idea that one morning I was just going to open my eyes, pop out of bed, and resume the life I lived before my stroke. Looking back on my life, I’ve really only had a few relatively small to midsize molehills with which to contend. We each have our mountains, this is mine. There was basic training, my heart attack, and the death of my Mom. All were traumatic for me, but I made it through. The first two were almost trivial when compared to the death of my Mom. I don’t suppose one ever truly gets over the loss of a parent. I’m of the age now when family members and friends are leaving this earth at a much more frequent rate. Had mine been what I would consider a normal stroke if you could ever really consider a stroke normal, I may have had some residual effects, but these past two years would certainly have been different. I probably would have never met or at least talked to most of you. I suppose that is my silver lining from all of this. I’ve met some amazing and wonderful people, either in person or through the magic of social media. I have also rekindled long-lost relationships with friends and loved ones and was surprised by ones I would have thought for sure would have been there but weren’t. I learned how hard it is to be inside your head 24/7. A memory can come from anywhere, a song, a football game, or even a TV commercial. There are so many times when I will just start sobbing for what seems like no reason. It happens with laughter too, and often at inappropriate times. Like most of my other bodily functions, I have no control. But here I am getting off-topic as I am apt to do. What I set out to do was to celebrate you and all that you have done for me. Every member of my Bedhead Bob News Daily site on Facebook is a special gift to me. My family has a tradition of sending thank you notes to everyone we get a gift from. I have decided that is what I will do: send thank you notes to each of you. This may seem a bit redundant to some since that is what I am doing with this post and have already done on Facebook, however, only a handful of people read my posts. I want everyone to receive my thanks. I know it is not a lot but I thought you should know how special you are to me. Again, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. May you get everything you want this year and more!
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